Baby steps for Baby..........
One of the things we have thought about more than anything is how will Tater be once Gully is gone. She is devastated. So we have been doing our share of pampering and spoiling and trying to help her cope with Gully not being here.
Truthfully, Tater came to me and told me she was worried about Kevin and suggested we take him to the park. So we did and a good time was had by all. I think I saw a few smiles on each of their faces and I am sure a few showed up on me as well. Kevin has always walked Tater and I always walked Gully. I felt him missing but tried not to let on. Much to my delight we saw people Fencing, people shopping, kids riding bikes, and sunshine and fragrant flowers. Life, as they say , goes on. We do the best we can and look after those we love. By living richly and meaningfully we truly honor those who are no longer with us.
Next time I am definately taking my swimming diapers.
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Love and hugs to all of you.
PS, I am completely befuddled by the "diapers only" sign.
It must be a recent phenom because it was a computer generated sign in a sheet protector. Must have been an incident,lol! Some creepy old fat guy wallowing in the splash pool in his undies.
What is a swimming diaper? I have no fucking clue,lol.
Congrats on the new assignment. I will pop in and catch up and see how things are.
Ain't that the truth!! And what a cruel trick to play on the kitties--Zola Jr. will have to see about that ;P
*hugs*
Tater looks peaceful. Your sentiments are so right on. They hit me right in the heart! Thank you for sharing yourself and your wonderful heart with us. And still making me laugh, of course. Swim diapers are for kids....not as full of huge absorbent stuff as regular diapers so the kids aren't floating upside down!
As for me...I am at the age where a swim diaper will be necessary soon enough! :P
HUGS!!!
It made my heart break a little more.
But, time has healed it.Calli is the Queen Bee around here, now. We have more furries to love and Chip will always remain one of the "best dogs in the world". I kept telling him that when he got so bad he couldn't even walk and his tail would "thump thump thump" on the floor. What a guy.
All these bright spirits...and somewhen, somehow, we will all end up together! Yay!
Been thinking of you all. Please don't feel guilty, the first time you laugh and feel free of grief -- even for a few seconds. That joy is like a gift from the one you miss. It won't last long, at first, but it'll come again, more and more often. Takes a while, though, to arrive. Enjoy it, when it comes, OK?
Diaper pix would be appreciated.